http://www.indy.com/posts/3172 en-us mel0dee All I can say is...WOW! Thats pretty amazing. See thats something that I've always wondered about too.. All the high school drama crap and pointless arguments that don't solve anything in the end. This is really a deep post. And its really odd that you even feel that way, and even worse when you're actually in that position as well. I've had experiences too, but never the less, I never had flowers given to me, cards sent to me, or just a regular movie night. Everything else I had to do. I was the one doing all the work in the relationship. So now, I finally had given up to even look or deal with anyone. Everyones in the same pothole as one another, every man is immature, every man can't think outside the box. It's crazy how the world is. I'm just only 18, and it doesn't even matter to me anymore. Men believe that the 'larger' and more 'materialistic' things in life is what makes a woman happy, but only 'finer' things in life are worth waiting for. I'm sure there's someone out there for you, and don't feel bad if you don't believe. Patience is the key to everything, just do what you like to do, and you're going to be ok. I promise. I don't make promises that I can't keep, but you have to trust me on this one. If I can make it on my own, I'm pretty sure you're strong enough to do so as well. =] Sun, 13 Jan 2008 21:52:31 -0500 http://www.indy.com/posts/3172#comment_11175 http://www.indy.com/posts/3172#comment_11175