Man with amnesia still searching for his past

Shari Rudavsky

April 27, 2009 by Shari Rudavsky | Star staff

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Since he was found with amnesia in ’04, only vague memories link him to Indy

He doesn’t remember his real name. He doesn’t remember his date of birth. He doesn’t remember his high school.

The man who now goes by Benjaman Kyle does not remember much about the past 50 or 60 years.

But Kyle, who lives in southern Georgia, does remember Indianapolis.

In August 2004, Kyle was found sunburned, unconscious and naked outside a Burger King in a suburb of Savannah. He had no wallet and was covered with fire ant bites and blinded by cataracts. Reports suggested he had been hit over the head.

Over the next few months, Kyle’s health and eyesight — thanks to donated surgery — were restored. But not his memory.

To this day, Kyle, who is thought to be in his late 50s to early 60s, has only a fleeting acquaintance with his personal history. He’s sure he grew up in Indianapolis, thinks he went to Catholic school and has a keen memory of Downtown.

At some point, he thinks, he moved to the Denver area and was involved in the restaurant industry. Other than that, he draws a blank when his mind tries to conjure his past.

“This is hard to talk about, because I know who I am,” Kyle said in a recent telephone interview. “I’m me . . . I really don’t feel part of me is missing.”

The U.S. government disagrees, however, and therein lies the problem. Without proper identification, Kyle can’t be issued a Social Security number. He can’t work legally, and he isn’t eligible for Medicare; he doesn’t know his age.

So Kyle is on a quest to discover who he was.

The FBI has not found his fingerprints in any database. Kyle has been polygraphed and hypnotized, said FBI agent Bill Kirkconnell, who’s based in Savannah.

Kyle’s face has been posted on missing persons boards. Last fall, his story was featured on “Dr. Phil.”

None of the leads that resulted has panned out.

“We’ve done everything we can,” Kirkconnell said. “We’re just waiting for that lucky break.”

Forensic genealogist Colleen Fitzpatrick is comparing Kyle’s DNA with samples in a number of genealogy databases. Nothing close has cropped up.

Even if there is a genetic match, Kyle or his father could have been adopted or sired by a man not married to their mother, further complicating identification, said Fitzpatrick, co-founder of IdentiFinders, a California company that does genetic genealogy detecting.

Kyle has spent hours on the Internet, looking for something to jolt his memory.

Believing that he attended Catholic school here, he’s viewed all the churches on the Web site of the Archdiocese of Indianapolis. He’s looked at pictures of local libraries, but because so many branches are new, he recognized nothing.

Still, his brain retains pictures of Indianapolis.

He remembers the Soldiers and Sailors Monument, the Woolworth’s on the Circle, the Indiana Theater, which he recalled showed movies in Cinerama. He remembers Crown Hill Cemetery, though not its name; the Scottish Rite Cathedral; and the White River when “it was mostly just a dumping ground.”

Later memories put Kyle in Denver, probably at some point in the 1970s. Kyle, who says he always had glasses and a mustache, also has a keen knowledge of restaurant design and equipment. He enjoys reading restaurant trade magazines.

The culinary highlight in Indianapolis for Kyle: the grilled cheese sandwiches for a quarter and glasses of milk for a nickel at the Indiana State Fair.

Kyle also recalled the former Burger Chef headquarters and the fact that SaniServ, a restaurant equipment company, was a subsidiary of Burger Chef.

For the past four years, Kyle has lived in the present.

After he was found, he spent months in the hospital and then moved to a respite center for the homeless in Savannah.

Katherine Slater, then a nurse at the center, befriended him and offered to let him live with her in exchange for help with home repairs. Slater also got involved with his case.

Kyle wants a Social Security number, but he’s not sure he wants all his memories back.

“There’s always the fear of the unknown,” he said. “If all of this comes back, somehow I am going to have to take all these memories that come back and merge them into what I have been for the last four years.”

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poorestchump
poorestchump, May 29, 2009
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After some digging, William Albert “Spike” Keathley, A.K.A Benjaman Kyle, has lived at least at 3 different addresses in Anderson, IN. He also lived in Muncie, IN and New Castle, IN.
He “died” in Phoenix, AZ in 1996 according to his brother Robert Claude Keathley who lives in Pasadena, TX. He went to Sam Rayburn High School in Pasadena and was formally trained in music (guitar, banjo, violin, trumpet, harmonica and probably more). The streets he lived on in Anderson IN are 43rd, Alhambra, and 21st. His father’s name is William Hollowood Keathley and his mother’s name (who passed away last year) was Violet Stare Keathley. He also has 3 sisters: Catherine, Christine and Carolyn. I wish you could have seen the look on Robert’s face when I showed him the time-regressed pictures from the Dr. Phil Show. He was SCARED. If “Benjaman” is not Spike then I wonder how they came up with Spike’s picture to use on Dr. Phil? By the way, his brother says he “died” from smoke inhalation. Can fire cause cataracts? How are cataracts formed when you are unconscious overnight. And how does anyone know how long he had amnesia… 13 years, maybe?
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CFitzp
CFitzp, July 8, 2009
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If you are serious about this, could you please contact me at CFitzp@aol.com? Thanks. Colleen Fitzpatrick

nancybaby
nancybaby, July 25, 2009
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nancybaby
nancybaby, July 25, 2009
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Hello My Dear, How are you today and how is life moving over there? i hope fine. My name is Miss Nancy, It is my pleasure to view your profile today in this site (/www.minglelink.com) and after going through your profile I became interested in you…please I will like to know you more better…so I will like you to reply this mail with your email address direct to my email not in the site, so that I can give you my picture for you to know whom I am. Here is my email address (shalunancy@yahoo.com) believe we can move from here…remember that color or distance does not matter but love matters a lot in life…so I am waiting impatiently to hear from you soonest. Thanks and have a wonderful day from nancy (shalunancy@yahoo.com)

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