Hey, Kat, I'm in the same boat as you, re: menfolk. What's up did they all migrate to Algeria or what? Thought I'd see if you were having any luck. I met a real sweety on datehookup, but apparently he wasn't ready for "the real thing" as much as he'd previously thought. So why does that make me feel like it's ME that has the problem? I know it's not. I'm just tired of the waiting, and wondering if there are any other good FREE sites I am unaware of....? I'm on plentyoffish, too. It's not bad. Def FREE. (In case you hadn't checked it out.) Hang in there, Sistah. Better to be alone than to settle. :) abbie